Self Help

Today was another hard day, It the fourth of July and I was sitting on my deck and wondering how can get this depressed feel to go away. so I started to make a list of things that I could do to help me and I wanted to share some.

The first one is always a good one, take a deep breath and smell the fresh air around you. After that it depends what you want to do. I read a book to relax or even watch a movie that I have seen a hundred times. But if you want other ways you could write a poem from the heart, stretch or exercise, the one I love the most is snuggle with my dogs. It seem that always help me, when I look at them they always make me smile. So I hope some of this tips Help you.

Happy Fourth of July

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RoughRough

This week was a rough one for me. I had the week off from baking for shows but my health problems have not been that nice to me. When you try your hardest to make sure you stay away from others that are sick it doesn’t always work. I had to do extra cleaning this week to make sure whatever my husband and daughter have or had I don’t get. It was not fun for me at all. As I did that it took a toll on me alone.

I have tried to do things to help me on my own but that has not helped. I told my doctor and I ended up in the ER which is never fun for anyone.

They could do much for me but give me pain medication and hope to talk to my doctor about what is going on.

This week begin baking for another show again and I hope that I will be able to work thru the pain and low energy and get it all done. I know that I will try my hardest. For those who know me well they know I will do whatever it takes to get the job done for this weekend.

This is a short one this week because my medication will be kicking in and I will be sleeping soon.

Holiday SeasonHoliday Season

The Holidays are among us and we all are busy with shopping , cleaning, wrapping and planning dinner. I know that each year around this time is one of the hardest times I have to go thru. I lost my mom just before Christmas and her birthday and it has been hard ever since. I know people tell me it will get easier and I don’t see how. The one person I could talk to about anything was my mom and now I don’t have that. I know that I have friends and other family members I can talk to but my mom was different. She loved me for me and it didn’t matter what was going on in our life. She always tries and makes Christmas the best for all of us. I still have the present that I got her that year. I know one year it will be easy for me to get thru the holidays but I am not sure when that will be.

It is never easy being down for the holidays, but I try and put on a brave face and get thru it. Sometimes the ones that are supposed to be there for you, don’t listen and make things harder to handle. I know that I will be fine and get thru the holiday season again, but just remember when you see someone don’t judge them you don’t know what they are going thru.

I want to wish everyone that has followed me and went on this year-long journey with me. I will continue next year where I know I will have challenges that will have to deal with. I know that I will get thru them with help from others and myself.

One day it would be nice to get a prayer answered once, but it will happen when you least expect it.

Holiday seasonHoliday season

It begins during the holiday season. The weather changes, the decorations start to come out and change in the stores. I know for me it’s hard to see Christmas stuff out when Halloween is not even over. I know that people start to shop for Christmas time. Thanksgiving is one holiday don’t get any credit.

I know that this year I have a lot to be thankful for. I am doing better and had a lot more fun this year. I know that I told my daughter to have more fun in life then just work and she has done that this year too. There have been a lot of changes in my life but I am just fine with most of them.

This blog has helped me a lot, I have got to let others know a lot about my life and what I go thru each day. I know that I have more to share and let others know. I enjoy talking about subjects that I want others to know that others don’t know about.

We all deal with different things in life. You never know what one person goes thru unless you’ve been in their shoes. We need more people that see the whole picture and not just what they hear.

I always want to try new things too. I am going to continue learning how to bake and cook more. Plus I want to learn to become a writer or freelance. I know it would be fun to learn. Just remember to follow what you believe in. No one can make you believe in what they believe in.

Remember is there is something you want to know about just comment or email me.