HurtHurt

I would like to start with saying sorry that i have not kept up with this, but I have been not feeling well and need to take care of my self to do this.

Now onto what the word hurt means: When you live with someone that has depression the words you say can make a difference. Words can hurt more then you even know because you don’t know how the person feels.

I know that when someone in your life says something to you and you are down it make you feel like giving up. I know that when it happen to me that is how I felt. On top of that I didn’t feel well and it been a roller coaster ever since.

So the one thing I would let people know is watch what you say to the ones that have depression and make sure they are doing fine before you say something that you might hurt them and they give up on life.

I know that you need to have a support system and people you can go to and talk and let them help you. I know that I have that and i lean on them when I have a hard time. Plus find other thing that help you feel better about yourself.

I know for me I have to let things sit for the night and then the next day I have to remember what is important to me. I know that I couldn’t leave my dogs or my friends that have always been there and help when I need someone right there.

So sometime changes need to be made and I figure out what I have to do to make my self happy again. I work hard at that make health choices.

keep others in your minded before you say something out loud that can hurt others. It might change that person life.

My LifeMy Life

Today is one day that I enjoy because I get a me day. Everyone needs one of these days because it helps you relax and catch up on things that you need for your self. I know that I try and figure out what I want to do, I try and make a list of what would make me happy and get me back to feeling my self again. I know that I need to take care of my dogs too. These days I am starting to rake care of my health more, plus get fresh air and get my dogs exercise too. Just make sure you have fun in what you do because if it feels like work then you will not get close to be yourself.

I know it been 3 months going on 4 since I moved and I am still unpacking and making my house a home. I have changed how I see life and what makes me happy. If I can’t find things that make me happy then I change it. I want make the life I have a better one, it may be short because of my medical condition that I have, I take every chance I have to have fun and enjoy each moment I have. That is why I spend time with who I want and do what I want to enjoy each moment. I keep journals and make scrape books of memories of everything I do.

Life is short and some have shorter then others. You never know what someone is going thru unless you see life thru their eyes. So please remember help where you can and listen when you have a free time.

Collect Memories not stuff

Tough TimesTough Times

Today thought is that everyone has those tough days and it hard to get thru. I know I have them more often than I want too. I have ways that I have learned to deal with. I would like to share them with you so maybe I can help others.

Think about things that make you happy and make a list. I know that I have changed my over the years which you are going to. I have my go to ones that always are on my list that help. Everyone in my house leaves me alone and let me be. Plus there are bonus days which those days are the best.

So far the ones that I have learn that always make me happy is Baking, Reading and hanging out with my dogs, (and yes I talk to my dogs as well). The other things that help is coloring, putting a puzzle together, or even write to others to let them know that I am ok. I know this doesn’t work for everyone but I know that those things make me happy and when I can’t do them I get really down. I know when I have those days I clean and organize things in my house, which others know I am having a bad day.

Everyone has those days and that ok, it how we handle it that make it better, Sometime talking to someone that you know that will always be there for you and just listen to you is always good. Support system is always good. I have a few friends that I can do that to but sometime that just is not enough. I have to figure out what works for me.

Well thanks for listen and how this helps understand something that I deal with and help me get thru these tough days

Craft Sales vs Garage SalesCraft Sales vs Garage Sales

Good afternoon,

Over the last week I have been thinking about things I could write about and While doing that my daughter and I have been going to different kinds of sales. When you go to a craft sale you kind of are looking for something you like and want to add you your house or something to make. When you go to a garage sale you are looking for a deal because you know people are trying to just get rid of stuff. So as I am going to these sales I think that some sales are just not even worth the time to stop. So I wonder what the people were thinking. It not like there is no planning on your part. I know it a lot of work. That why over the last few months instead of a garage sale post things online and have people pick up with not contact. you might not get as much as you want but there are people that love boxes of just one thing.

Don’t get my wrong I like Craft shows but I am only looking for something that I really need there and I know when I find something it not going to be cheap. Sometime think about just Donating it to a good cause, we all know there are people that need it right now. So thank you for reading this and maybe it made you think differently about what to do.

I will being thinking of other things but please if you like to bring something to my attention or want me to look into more I will be more then happy to.

Angel

News updateNews update

Well readers I have been a way for a long time. Lots have changes. I want to start by letting everyone know that over the last year or so, during the worse time of anyone life I got the Covid 19 but I made it thru it. It was hard and it really change my outlook on life. I moved to a new house, new city, it all been going good since the move. There is so much I want to touch base on and I will start updating and talking about things that are hard in life. I know that I have dealt with a lot. I hope people follow me and if you need support I am here to listen.

All I know that life has change in so many ways and we all have to still find out what is important to us and how to handle life differently now. Each person deal with things differently but everyone needs to know that there are others out there that is going thru what you are and want to help when we can.

Thanks for listen and please check back daily and we will talk about different topics.

Season ChangeSeason Change

The season is change already. It means start making things that are relative to Fall. There is a lot out there but most involve pumpkin. Which I am ok with. Plus I just start see leaves change color too. I love the fall weather, it nice enough to sit outside and enjoy the cool air. Plus the bonus is that you can open windows and doors and air out your house.

Kids going back to school also. I know I don’t have young kids for that but I live in a neighborhood that still has kids that do. So in the morning the bus comes by my house and my dogs bark at the kids standing at the corner waiting for the bus.

I have been baking a lot so it nice to open the doors and let out the fresh baked smell, plus people are having fires also. Just fall is my favorite season.

Please anyone out there that likes fall and have what they like to do, let me know. I open up to making a lot of things.

Check me out on Instagram and Twitter I will post things I have made.

Have a great fall day

RoutineRoutine

Here a good life style one for all. I have started making a routine each day so I can start doing other things that I want to do and I just have not found the time.

I love to bake, write, read and hang out with my dogs. I just never found the time in each day so I can play, or walk my dogs so I needed to make sometime for them. they are important to me! So I made a list of when I had time to put them in my daily activity. Next I wanted to start exercise and so I figure out how to add my dogs in there and spend time with them too.

The other things I just need to take some time and do things I love “Life is short” to not enjoy each moment in life. So I find the time to just sit down and write each day about one thing or person, place, a memory. It has help me get it done and I am on my way.

The last is couple of things, I need to figure out how to do and still get other things done in my house and life. Some work, but need breaks and that when I read or just take some deep breaths; you would not understand how that just help. Plus Music when your working is a lot easier to get things done faster.

So if anyone needs help change something in a routine please let me help and I will do my best to find out where you can take time for yourself. Everyone needs that.

FosterFoster

We got new foster a little over a week ago now and they have been a handful to take care of. They are three sweet girls. Plus since we got them so much of my house has been changed for them. They are small girls so my boys can’t play with them at all, but Olaf can she is great with them. Olaf is just the right size.

You can see them on my Instagram or Twitter. I will post them picture of the two we have left. One is going home to her forever home, which I am so happy for her.

My twitter is Wildangelbear9

Instagram is myangelbear9

go check them out and you can go to warriordogrescue.com and become there forever family.

BBQ Pork Chop SkilletBBQ Pork Chop Skillet

I want to share a recipe that I made and it was real good.

BBQ Pork Chop Skillet

Olive Oil or Vegetable Oil

1/2 Cup BBQ Sauce (your Choice)

1/2 Cup water

4-6 Boneless pork chops

Drizzle a skillet with oil, Place pork chops in skillet and sear for 5 minutes on each side on medium heat. Season with salt and pepper as you like. Add in 1/2 cup of water and 1/2 cup of BBQ sauce, cover and simmer on low for 5-10 minutes until chops are cooked through. Let sit a few minutes before serving.

This was an easy dinner and I enjoyed it very much. Please try it and let me know what you think about it. I know that I had to change it to make it better for me to eat, which I don’t use salt. The Pork chop are tender and you can serve it with potatoes or even better vegetable.

Thank you for letting me share this great dinner.

OlafOlaf

Let me tell you about me little girl. We just got her fixed and so this week has been a long already. She can’t play with her brothers and it hard to keep her from wanting to play. Olaf has a few more days for healing. Plus this weekend she will be at raspberry fest with us.

We had our refrigerator go out this past week to, so we had to change how much stuff we have in the house. So it been hard with Olaf and having to try and use what I need to out of the cooler and my chest freezer.

So if you ever think days go by smooth, think again. I did order a new refrigerator but won’t get it for a month because it has to be made. So I trying to use stuff so we can fit everything in a mini refrigerator. Plus we got another chest freezer so I have more room to put dog treats a d baked goodies.

Hope everyone summer is going good and everyone is staying cool.