Grief

This week I wanted to talk about grief. We all go thru it sometime in our lives. I know I have had too much in my. Sometimes it hits you like a ton of bricks and other times you can expect it. People will tell you sorry for your loss, others wont know what to say at all.

There are those times they just don’t know what to do. So the next time you hear someone has lost a loved one, maybe just see what you can do for them. They know that you are sorry but after a while they just don’t want to hear it any more.

I know from experience that is for sure. We are going thru some grief right now. We have not lost our fur baby but we just don’t know when that day is going to come. It has been hard to talk about it and people ask how he is. We take it one day at a time, because we know that day is coming. It will be a hard day, everyone that has lost a pet knows the feeling.

So thank you for listening to me and hope the next couple of weeks goes better.

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Season ChangeSeason Change

As you look outside and see the leaves changing color and fall out of trees. You start to think about the last year and how it is coming to end quickly.I know for me things have changed in my life. I am trying to hold things together but it’s hard.

I know that I missed last week, but I was unavailable. My health sometimes takes a front seat and I need to keep it in check. I am back and working on getting better. Each day is a new adventure that I have to overcome. I have a lot of people that count on me and I want to be there for those special moments in life.

I have a couple of craft shows coming up this month for Sweets 4 you. I am going to do my best to make what I can and do the shows. If you are thinking that you might need goodies for this up coming holidays look at her Facebook page.

I want to thank everyone that reads this, it help me know people care.

FebruaryFebruary

This month is supposed to be full of Love with Valentine’s Day in it. But I don’t think that yuo need to have one day to show the person you love that they are special. Each day of the year should be for that. I think that the little things in life are what matter and when you are in a relationship the smallest thing you do can mean so much and go a long way.

I know that I don’t need any candy or flowers to show me that I am special, even a few words would work. just to let the person you love they mean the world to you. I know restaurants are busy, but why not take the time to cook together and just talk about what they other means to you. Each day is precious and making a memory that will last a life time.

I know that I take each day very serious, ad it because I have an illness that could end in death so I make each day counts as much as I can.

Pleaseall be kind to one another, and make each moment count.

RoutineRoutine

Here a good life style one for all. I have started making a routine each day so I can start doing other things that I want to do and I just have not found the time.

I love to bake, write, read and hang out with my dogs. I just never found the time in each day so I can play, or walk my dogs so I needed to make sometime for them. they are important to me! So I made a list of when I had time to put them in my daily activity. Next I wanted to start exercise and so I figure out how to add my dogs in there and spend time with them too.

The other things I just need to take some time and do things I love “Life is short” to not enjoy each moment in life. So I find the time to just sit down and write each day about one thing or person, place, a memory. It has help me get it done and I am on my way.

The last is couple of things, I need to figure out how to do and still get other things done in my house and life. Some work, but need breaks and that when I read or just take some deep breaths; you would not understand how that just help. Plus Music when your working is a lot easier to get things done faster.

So if anyone needs help change something in a routine please let me help and I will do my best to find out where you can take time for yourself. Everyone needs that.