Self Help
Today was another hard day, It the fourth of July and I was sitting on my deck and wondering how can get this depressed feel to go away. so I started to make a list of things that I could do to help me and I wanted to share some.
The first one is always a good one, take a deep breath and smell the fresh air around you. After that it depends what you want to do. I read a book to relax or even watch a movie that I have seen a hundred times. But if you want other ways you could write a poem from the heart, stretch or exercise, the one I love the most is snuggle with my dogs. It seem that always help me, when I look at them they always make me smile. So I hope some of this tips Help you.
Happy Fourth of July
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GriefGrief
This week I wanted to talk about grief. We all go thru it sometime in our lives. I know I have had too much in my. Sometimes it hits you like a ton of bricks and other times you can expect it. People will tell you sorry for your loss, others wont know what to say at all.
There are those times they just don’t know what to do. So the next time you hear someone has lost a loved one, maybe just see what you can do for them. They know that you are sorry but after a while they just don’t want to hear it any more.
I know from experience that is for sure. We are going thru some grief right now. We have not lost our fur baby but we just don’t know when that day is going to come. It has been hard to talk about it and people ask how he is. We take it one day at a time, because we know that day is coming. It will be a hard day, everyone that has lost a pet knows the feeling.
So thank you for listening to me and hope the next couple of weeks goes better.
RoughRough
This week was a rough one for me. I had the week off from baking for shows but my health problems have not been that nice to me. When you try your hardest to make sure you stay away from others that are sick it doesn’t always work. I had to do extra cleaning this week to make sure whatever my husband and daughter have or had I don’t get. It was not fun for me at all. As I did that it took a toll on me alone.
I have tried to do things to help me on my own but that has not helped. I told my doctor and I ended up in the ER which is never fun for anyone.
They could do much for me but give me pain medication and hope to talk to my doctor about what is going on.
This week begin baking for another show again and I hope that I will be able to work thru the pain and low energy and get it all done. I know that I will try my hardest. For those who know me well they know I will do whatever it takes to get the job done for this weekend.
This is a short one this week because my medication will be kicking in and I will be sleeping soon.
My LifeMy Life
Today is one day that I enjoy because I get a me day. Everyone needs one of these days because it helps you relax and catch up on things that you need for your self. I know that I try and figure out what I want to do, I try and make a list of what would make me happy and get me back to feeling my self again. I know that I need to take care of my dogs too. These days I am starting to rake care of my health more, plus get fresh air and get my dogs exercise too. Just make sure you have fun in what you do because if it feels like work then you will not get close to be yourself.
I know it been 3 months going on 4 since I moved and I am still unpacking and making my house a home. I have changed how I see life and what makes me happy. If I can’t find things that make me happy then I change it. I want make the life I have a better one, it may be short because of my medical condition that I have, I take every chance I have to have fun and enjoy each moment I have. That is why I spend time with who I want and do what I want to enjoy each moment. I keep journals and make scrape books of memories of everything I do.
Life is short and some have shorter then others. You never know what someone is going thru unless you see life thru their eyes. So please remember help where you can and listen when you have a free time.
Collect Memories not stuff