End of Year

As I sit here and think about the year 2024 and everything that has happened in my life. I learned so much about family, friends and myself too. I know there is a lot to be great for, but there is this that I will have to change in the up coming year. Change is not always good for everyone that is involved but sometimes hard choices have to be made.

I have learned that I have people I can count on no matter what and there are others I have to let go because you can count on them or they are not there when you need them the most. It’s hard when you have to choice but life is not always what it seems. You make time for the one that you care about and want in your life. I know that is not always easy but if you care and want them there you make an effort to make it happen.

I have also learned I have changed what I like and don’t and want to make a difference in this world. I want to give back and make the most of each day of my life. I know this is going to be all on me, but I am willing to make the effort to know that I can do it. I want to learn more about what I am good at and what I want to work on. Change has its good side and it is bad but if you do it for yourself you know that it has to be right.

I am also going to keep going on this journey and that change I make and let you know how I am doing. I know it is never easy at the beginning but it is now or never. I know that I will have hard times but I will make the most of them and work thru them all.

I am going to take one day at a time and enjoy life a little more and have some fun in the meantime. Learn more about healthy ways I can eat and learn new things at the same time. I know that some people would call this a new year resolution but not me. Most people make them and they are short term. I am making changes and growing into someone that enjoys life more.

My health means a lot and that is one thing that I need to work on the most, because I had a rough year with that. I am ready to take the steps and change what I can and hopefully feel better and more energy.

I want to wish all the people that have followed me with this journey and will continue because 2025 is coming up quickly and I am ready.

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Well this last week has been crazy, we had someone in our family pass away. It bring up important things as that we should talk about with our kids. It hard subject to talk about but we all need to. Make sure your kids know where all the important papers are and what you want if something happens to you. You never want them to have to make those decisions for you. They will be grieving and that all they should have to deal with.

I know that I am starting all the things I need to do, because I know after see what we had to go thru, I never want my kids to go thru that. I want to do what my mom did and she had everything pick out and paid for. I not sure if I an do that but I am going to do what I can.

Plus I want to make sure I know what my kids are going to get. I love them and i want to even write something to each of them. I know that i have some things i want to say to them but not until i am gone. That way it if me and they know how I felt about them.

So mlm please make sure you have the hard talk with your family and they know what your wishes are.

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