What is a decision – it is define as a conclusion or resolution reached after consideration.

We all think about the decision we make, if it will be the right one or wrong one. Some even stress out about the decision that they need to make about life, work, and important information. I know there are times when we go back and forth about what the right decision is going to be. We never want to hurt anyone with the decision we make.

There are times where some decisions are easy to make and it will go well for all involved. There are those hard decisions we have to make for someone else , like a pet when the time is right for them. It may be one of the hardest decisions you have to make in your life.

Those easy decisions on what to wear or eat or even if you want to go out or not. There are hard decisions and easy ones. Sometimes you don’t see any easy answers to either one but life is the same way.

I know that I have the same problems when it comes to myself. I am not sure what to share with others or what to let go. All I know is that I think about a lot of different things in my life and wonder what it would be like if the decision I made is the wrong one. I don’t always share a lot about my life, but for what I do share I know who I share it with matters to me.

Just remember that love ones are there when you need something, so lean on them if you can. Maybe it is friends that need you to lean on, be there for them. I know a lot of people will think about this post and wonder if they make the right or wrong decision in their life.

Decisions can be changed at any time in your life, so don’t think that the one you make today is the final one. It is only final when you want it to be.

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My LifeMy Life

Today is one day that I enjoy because I get a me day. Everyone needs one of these days because it helps you relax and catch up on things that you need for your self. I know that I try and figure out what I want to do, I try and make a list of what would make me happy and get me back to feeling my self again. I know that I need to take care of my dogs too. These days I am starting to rake care of my health more, plus get fresh air and get my dogs exercise too. Just make sure you have fun in what you do because if it feels like work then you will not get close to be yourself.

I know it been 3 months going on 4 since I moved and I am still unpacking and making my house a home. I have changed how I see life and what makes me happy. If I can’t find things that make me happy then I change it. I want make the life I have a better one, it may be short because of my medical condition that I have, I take every chance I have to have fun and enjoy each moment I have. That is why I spend time with who I want and do what I want to enjoy each moment. I keep journals and make scrape books of memories of everything I do.

Life is short and some have shorter then others. You never know what someone is going thru unless you see life thru their eyes. So please remember help where you can and listen when you have a free time.

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GriefGrief

This week I wanted to talk about grief. We all go thru it sometime in our lives. I know I have had too much in my. Sometimes it hits you like a ton of bricks and other times you can expect it. People will tell you sorry for your loss, others wont know what to say at all.

There are those times they just don’t know what to do. So the next time you hear someone has lost a loved one, maybe just see what you can do for them. They know that you are sorry but after a while they just don’t want to hear it any more.

I know from experience that is for sure. We are going thru some grief right now. We have not lost our fur baby but we just don’t know when that day is going to come. It has been hard to talk about it and people ask how he is. We take it one day at a time, because we know that day is coming. It will be a hard day, everyone that has lost a pet knows the feeling.

So thank you for listening to me and hope the next couple of weeks goes better.

Think before speakThink before speak

This week is about things people say to others that might hurt. I know that when it happens to me it stays with me for a while. It hurts for people that are supposed to love you and be there when you need them. When it happens I go through a cycle of why what I do even matters to anyone. When someone likes me with the issues I have it hard. Life doesn’t seem to matter to me anymore. I try and try but I think why no one cares if I am here or gone.

I know that I will get past it sometime but each time it takes a little longer. Many different ideas go through my head, but I do not act on any. I know that happens to others and are afraid to say something or even talk about it. This is why I want others to know you are never alone.

One day there are things that get to you, bother you, you will miss it. The one thing that seems to get to me the most is, that when it comes from someone that is supposed to love you. I know that everyone changes as they go through life but the love you have should never be something that hurts you the most.

Thank you again for letting me do this.