Season changes, leaves change colors. What do we do to change? We change our clothes for the weather. So it is time to look back at the year and see what we have learned about ourselves and what is going on around us.

Start making plans on what to change the following months or year. I know that I have been thinking about what I want to do. Some things will be hard and slow, but I just have to make my goals small and have little victories.

There has been so much change in my life right now, I feel overwhelmed at times. I have a hard time dealing with it, so instead I stay busy and not think about it for a while. I know that it will catch up to me and I am going to have to face what is going on inside my head.

Sorry this one has taken me a while to write but I wanted to make sure others understand what I am going thru and what I have in front of me to face. I know some will have helpful tips and I am welcome of that. The others that have comments that I need to face what is coming and deal with it because it happens to everyone have no idea what it’s like in someone else’s shoes.

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The choose you make?The choose you make?

This week it is all about choosing what we make in our everyday life. I know that this week we have had to make a few that were kind of hard. When you think about the right one for everyone that may affect. It is not always easy, that is why you need to figure out what is beside you and what it will do to the people around you. When it is done and you walk away, you need to make sure it is something you can live with.

I know that I have made a few this week for myself. I have to change a few things I do, but it’s OK.

This week is short because of the changes that I am making, but as I change things in the right direction I will share each step.

Thank you for letting me do this, and taking this journey with me.

RoutineRoutine

Here a good life style one for all. I have started making a routine each day so I can start doing other things that I want to do and I just have not found the time.

I love to bake, write, read and hang out with my dogs. I just never found the time in each day so I can play, or walk my dogs so I needed to make sometime for them. they are important to me! So I made a list of when I had time to put them in my daily activity. Next I wanted to start exercise and so I figure out how to add my dogs in there and spend time with them too.

The other things I just need to take some time and do things I love “Life is short” to not enjoy each moment in life. So I find the time to just sit down and write each day about one thing or person, place, a memory. It has help me get it done and I am on my way.

The last is couple of things, I need to figure out how to do and still get other things done in my house and life. Some work, but need breaks and that when I read or just take some deep breaths; you would not understand how that just help. Plus Music when your working is a lot easier to get things done faster.

So if anyone needs help change something in a routine please let me help and I will do my best to find out where you can take time for yourself. Everyone needs that.

Holiday SeasonHoliday Season

The Holidays are among us and we all are busy with shopping , cleaning, wrapping and planning dinner. I know that each year around this time is one of the hardest times I have to go thru. I lost my mom just before Christmas and her birthday and it has been hard ever since. I know people tell me it will get easier and I don’t see how. The one person I could talk to about anything was my mom and now I don’t have that. I know that I have friends and other family members I can talk to but my mom was different. She loved me for me and it didn’t matter what was going on in our life. She always tries and makes Christmas the best for all of us. I still have the present that I got her that year. I know one year it will be easy for me to get thru the holidays but I am not sure when that will be.

It is never easy being down for the holidays, but I try and put on a brave face and get thru it. Sometimes the ones that are supposed to be there for you, don’t listen and make things harder to handle. I know that I will be fine and get thru the holiday season again, but just remember when you see someone don’t judge them you don’t know what they are going thru.

I want to wish everyone that has followed me and went on this year-long journey with me. I will continue next year where I know I will have challenges that will have to deal with. I know that I will get thru them with help from others and myself.

One day it would be nice to get a prayer answered once, but it will happen when you least expect it.