Rest in Peace
This week was a crazy one, it started off overwhelmed to sad. It is hard for anyone to lose a parent. I know this is because when I lose my mom. There is so much you need to do during this time.
The month of September is a hard time for a lot of people because of 9/11 and a lot of people lost a loved one. My husband grandfather passed away this month, he lived a great life. we will all miss him.
I know this is going to be another short one, because I have a lot going on and figure it out. I know that I feel better after the month is over.
I have some topics that I am working on to post in the upcoming month. So please stay tuned.
just make sure you spend time with the ones that matter because one day they will be gone.
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HealthHealth
This week I wanted to let you know a few things I am doing this week. I am going to see a hand surgeon to figure out what is going on. Plus, to see if I have to have surgery on my left hand to fix the problem. The next one is a big one. I am going down to the Mayo clinic again to get a procedure done. My specialists are down there so sometimes it’s better to do them there then up in st. cloud area. I never enjoy the prep for them, but sometimes you do what you have to. Staying as healthy as you can is important for me. I know others count on me.
When you think about your health it is not just physical, it is your mental health too. I know that is what I have the hardest time with. I try and figure out ways to make it better, but it doesn’t always work. I just have to remember that I need to live my life simply and enjoy each minute I have.
I think of my mom at times, because she had it rough and I know that I have support she didn’t. I miss her everyday. Every morning I thank God for letting me have another day with my family and dogs. I have a lot of people in my life, but I only have a few good friends that I enjoy in my life.
That is all for this week. I have to get ready and it is going to take me this whole week.
GriefGrief
This week I wanted to talk about grief. We all go thru it sometime in our lives. I know I have had too much in my. Sometimes it hits you like a ton of bricks and other times you can expect it. People will tell you sorry for your loss, others wont know what to say at all.
There are those times they just don’t know what to do. So the next time you hear someone has lost a loved one, maybe just see what you can do for them. They know that you are sorry but after a while they just don’t want to hear it any more.
I know from experience that is for sure. We are going thru some grief right now. We have not lost our fur baby but we just don’t know when that day is going to come. It has been hard to talk about it and people ask how he is. We take it one day at a time, because we know that day is coming. It will be a hard day, everyone that has lost a pet knows the feeling.
So thank you for listening to me and hope the next couple of weeks goes better.
LonelinessLoneliness
I am writing this on the way I feel. Over the past few weeks I know that I have not wrote anything and it because of loneliness. It happens more often the people think. I know that I get this way and I shut down and shut others out. It hard some days. I due get thru it with a few friends help and the ones I can count on my dogs. It good to have a support system in place so that when you get this way you know where you can go to. I never get to the place where taking my life is ever an option. I know I have more to do in life and it not my turn.
I just wanted to let people out that know why I have not wrote, being honest with others help more then most people think. When you know that you have issues and you can let others know too that is the first step. I know that I don’t always let people in and help, but I am trying. Plus I think of my mom and wonder what she say to me at times about what going on. She always try and help or even just listen which we all need that.
so please is you get this way remember there is help out there for us and make sure you have support system they do help. I know that over the last year I have done things differently because I know that I have a lot of things I want to do and try. I am not willing to give up that just yet.
Just cause we are all different we all still need to think about others and see what we can do to help. Just think we all have problems but we don’t always show them.
Just think of what Ellen would say Be kind to one another.