Grief
This week I wanted to talk about grief. We all go thru it sometime in our lives. I know I have had too much in my. Sometimes it hits you like a ton of bricks and other times you can expect it. People will tell you sorry for your loss, others wont know what to say at all.
There are those times they just don’t know what to do. So the next time you hear someone has lost a loved one, maybe just see what you can do for them. They know that you are sorry but after a while they just don’t want to hear it any more.
I know from experience that is for sure. We are going thru some grief right now. We have not lost our fur baby but we just don’t know when that day is going to come. It has been hard to talk about it and people ask how he is. We take it one day at a time, because we know that day is coming. It will be a hard day, everyone that has lost a pet knows the feeling.
So thank you for listening to me and hope the next couple of weeks goes better.
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End of YearEnd of Year
As I sit here and think about the year 2024 and everything that has happened in my life. I learned so much about family, friends and myself too. I know there is a lot to be great for, but there is this that I will have to change in the up coming year. Change is not always good for everyone that is involved but sometimes hard choices have to be made.
I have learned that I have people I can count on no matter what and there are others I have to let go because you can count on them or they are not there when you need them the most. It’s hard when you have to choice but life is not always what it seems. You make time for the one that you care about and want in your life. I know that is not always easy but if you care and want them there you make an effort to make it happen.
I have also learned I have changed what I like and don’t and want to make a difference in this world. I want to give back and make the most of each day of my life. I know this is going to be all on me, but I am willing to make the effort to know that I can do it. I want to learn more about what I am good at and what I want to work on. Change has its good side and it is bad but if you do it for yourself you know that it has to be right.
I am also going to keep going on this journey and that change I make and let you know how I am doing. I know it is never easy at the beginning but it is now or never. I know that I will have hard times but I will make the most of them and work thru them all.
I am going to take one day at a time and enjoy life a little more and have some fun in the meantime. Learn more about healthy ways I can eat and learn new things at the same time. I know that some people would call this a new year resolution but not me. Most people make them and they are short term. I am making changes and growing into someone that enjoys life more.
My health means a lot and that is one thing that I need to work on the most, because I had a rough year with that. I am ready to take the steps and change what I can and hopefully feel better and more energy.
I want to wish all the people that have followed me with this journey and will continue because 2025 is coming up quickly and I am ready.
LoveLove
A new month and it is all about love or it is supposed to be. I know that my life has not always been easy. I have been married for 30 years which is unheard of. February is a wonderful month because my little baby girl was born, she is not so little anymore. I am so proud of her and what she has done in her life so far.
This month is going to be a busy one for her and her business. I hope people go check it out. she does wonderful work.
I am not sure what is going on with me but my depression has been on overdrive. Not sure what will help make things better with it. I don’t like going to the doctor and taking something for it. I think that it is better when you can find ways to overcome it.
This is my fifth week and I have enjoyed sharing things out there and hoping one day I can help someone else. I donate stuff and help where I can and that makes me happy. I wish there was a way I could make more money and help more.
Working toward something is what my goal is. Still trying to find my purpose in life yet, but I know that it will come with time.
Thanks to all
Family and StressFamily and Stress
I know that it has been a while but when you stress of getting this done for your family is on you, sometime you forget what you need to do first. I know that everyone deals with stress differently. I know that I try not to have it get me down but that don’t always work. I have been working on school all summer long and I am coming to the end and I have a couple of things to do. The only thing is that when I am done I have the stress of getting my certification and getting a new job. This put a lot of stress on me because of my family, I want then to be proud of me. I know we should let others make us feel better about ourselves. I know that what I am doing is a lot on my family. I do everything I can for them. I know sometime I don’t think that they see it that way but I know that I do.
Well I will get through this because I know that is what I want to do. I believe in myself and I am going to do the best I can.
Be kind and make each day count.