I would like to start with saying sorry that i have not kept up with this, but I have been not feeling well and need to take care of my self to do this.

Now onto what the word hurt means: When you live with someone that has depression the words you say can make a difference. Words can hurt more then you even know because you don’t know how the person feels.

I know that when someone in your life says something to you and you are down it make you feel like giving up. I know that when it happen to me that is how I felt. On top of that I didn’t feel well and it been a roller coaster ever since.

So the one thing I would let people know is watch what you say to the ones that have depression and make sure they are doing fine before you say something that you might hurt them and they give up on life.

I know that you need to have a support system and people you can go to and talk and let them help you. I know that I have that and i lean on them when I have a hard time. Plus find other thing that help you feel better about yourself.

I know for me I have to let things sit for the night and then the next day I have to remember what is important to me. I know that I couldn’t leave my dogs or my friends that have always been there and help when I need someone right there.

So sometime changes need to be made and I figure out what I have to do to make my self happy again. I work hard at that make health choices.

keep others in your minded before you say something out loud that can hurt others. It might change that person life.

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Hallmark ChannelHallmark Channel

It funny to watch this the hallmark channel because it is playing christmas movies and it July, but they have a lot of good movies. I have been watching ones that you can sit and wish life was really like that, but let face the facts that will never happen.  It is still fun to watch christmas movies in July because it makes you feel happy, I know it does for me. During christmas it hard to be happy for me becaue I lost my mom four days before christmas and I have tried for years to get back in that happy place again. I just think that my mom would never want me to be down and that what helps me get thru the hoildays.

Just if you have a free moment this month you should turn on the Hallmark channel and watch a christmas movie in July and see how it make you feel.

Enjoy those little moment again.

LimitsLimits

This week I like to talk about our limits and when they get pushed too far. I know that I have had this happen to me these past couple of weeks. I was not sure how to handle it. So I had to look for something that would help me calm down.

Remember what makes you feel at peace and happiness. I know that I had to think and push myself into what I need to do. It is not always easy but it works in the end. Baking and reading help me. When I am baking I listen to pod cast and that also helps direct my mind to something else and calms the rest of me.

At night I go to bed early to read and that directs me to what I am reading and calms me to be able to sleep which I need. I know what I need and I just have to figure out how to make it happen for me.

I know this post has taken me a little longer. It’s hard to type one handed that is for sure. When you have a lot of things to do, but when you have to do it slow and one handed. I just know that my limits have been tested , but this is a time when I get to know myself. I know that changes are happening and I can’t stop it.

Thank you for following my journey and getting to know me.

Tough TimesTough Times

Today thought is that everyone has those tough days and it hard to get thru. I know I have them more often than I want too. I have ways that I have learned to deal with. I would like to share them with you so maybe I can help others.

Think about things that make you happy and make a list. I know that I have changed my over the years which you are going to. I have my go to ones that always are on my list that help. Everyone in my house leaves me alone and let me be. Plus there are bonus days which those days are the best.

So far the ones that I have learn that always make me happy is Baking, Reading and hanging out with my dogs, (and yes I talk to my dogs as well). The other things that help is coloring, putting a puzzle together, or even write to others to let them know that I am ok. I know this doesn’t work for everyone but I know that those things make me happy and when I can’t do them I get really down. I know when I have those days I clean and organize things in my house, which others know I am having a bad day.

Everyone has those days and that ok, it how we handle it that make it better, Sometime talking to someone that you know that will always be there for you and just listen to you is always good. Support system is always good. I have a few friends that I can do that to but sometime that just is not enough. I have to figure out what works for me.

Well thanks for listen and how this helps understand something that I deal with and help me get thru these tough days