Tough Times

Today thought is that everyone has those tough days and it hard to get thru. I know I have them more often than I want too. I have ways that I have learned to deal with. I would like to share them with you so maybe I can help others.

Think about things that make you happy and make a list. I know that I have changed my over the years which you are going to. I have my go to ones that always are on my list that help. Everyone in my house leaves me alone and let me be. Plus there are bonus days which those days are the best.

So far the ones that I have learn that always make me happy is Baking, Reading and hanging out with my dogs, (and yes I talk to my dogs as well). The other things that help is coloring, putting a puzzle together, or even write to others to let them know that I am ok. I know this doesn’t work for everyone but I know that those things make me happy and when I can’t do them I get really down. I know when I have those days I clean and organize things in my house, which others know I am having a bad day.

Everyone has those days and that ok, it how we handle it that make it better, Sometime talking to someone that you know that will always be there for you and just listen to you is always good. Support system is always good. I have a few friends that I can do that to but sometime that just is not enough. I have to figure out what works for me.

Well thanks for listen and how this helps understand something that I deal with and help me get thru these tough days

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One day there are things that get to you, bother you, you will miss it. The one thing that seems to get to me the most is, that when it comes from someone that is supposed to love you. I know that everyone changes as they go through life but the love you have should never be something that hurts you the most.

Thank you again for letting me do this.

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I not sure if anyone has started this, but I know I have, it amazing what you find when you are going thru things. I know that I have wanted to do something a long time but I never had the time. Now that I am not working outside that house and I am home more. I started really cleaning and organizing things. I am doing good so far. I cleaned half of my basement and the garage and already took a trip to goodwill. I know that where I give a lot of the clothes that I am getting rid of. I also going to set up for a garage sale that I have not got to do in a long time because I worked so much. It feels great to get things done. I know a lot of people say that the bigger the house the more stuff you have, I don’t believe that. I think that if you go thru things and just keep what you need or stuff that means a lot to you and you want to past down to your kids, that all you need. I know that it been easier for me to find things that I need when I am organized. Plus you have time to enjoy the beautiful weather we have.

Remember I am still doing craft shows for everyone puppies and dogs. I still raising money for my boy that means more to me then anyone could know.

So please follow us on Facebook and visit us at the show. Next one is Monticello this Sunday from 11-3

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This last couple of weeks I have made a to do list that I do each day. I don’t like it as much as I think that I do. I sometimes feel like a robot doing the same thing each day. I try to do other things to make life fun. After a while I don’t know what that is. I have great friends and family that are there but I know my kids are doing their own thing. So I need to find something that is mine.

I listen to podcasts a lot and they are interesting. I listen to them when I clean or bake. All the podcasts I listen to are different. Some are true crimes, another one is how to make space in your life. It’s interesting because you hear other stories and you can see my life. That is when I think that I could do things that are fun and make my life better.

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