Sometime this can be hard to take but other times it just make you made that when you find out the truth you just want to go and say something to that person. I know that I am blessed and glad that I have great friends that have my back, because when I found out the truth they are still there in my life. Sometime you thing that one person can’t change someone else life but it can. It happen to me, but I am better for it and I opened a new chapter in my life and I will a happier person for it. So you can say that the one person I can thank for that, because if it was not for this person I would still be unhappy and stressed each day of the week. My life has gone in a better direction.

So when you find something out, just think of how it effects your life, because one day you can look back and say thank you, they may even made life better. when one door closes, a new and better one will open, you just need to find it.

Be kind to all!

 

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GriefGrief

This week I wanted to talk about grief. We all go thru it sometime in our lives. I know I have had too much in my. Sometimes it hits you like a ton of bricks and other times you can expect it. People will tell you sorry for your loss, others wont know what to say at all.

There are those times they just don’t know what to do. So the next time you hear someone has lost a loved one, maybe just see what you can do for them. They know that you are sorry but after a while they just don’t want to hear it any more.

I know from experience that is for sure. We are going thru some grief right now. We have not lost our fur baby but we just don’t know when that day is going to come. It has been hard to talk about it and people ask how he is. We take it one day at a time, because we know that day is coming. It will be a hard day, everyone that has lost a pet knows the feeling.

So thank you for listening to me and hope the next couple of weeks goes better.

Stress and PressureStress and Pressure

I know that lately I have been talking about life. These are topics that everyone deals with all the time. I know that I always put on a happy face but sometime I have the stress and pressure on getting a lot done in a short time to make others happy. I know that it been hard and I push my self to get everything done. I know everything will work out the way they should and I will get things done. Just remember you need to take some time out for your self and relax and have fun. If you don’t you will not do you or anyone any good. I know that I have done that. I end up shutting down and feeling depressed which is not good either. I figure out ways I can have some fun and take care of me. Plus I have my boys to help me to. Because with out my boys I think that I would lose it more.

Remember to be kind and look out for yourself.

WaitingWaiting

I wanted to write this post this week for my boy Dubnyk. He is our 6 year foster failure. We love him so much and would do anything to help him. I would do it for any one of my dogs but he has had a hard life to start and has come a long way. A few months ago we went to the vet because he had a bump on the side of his face. We found out he had a cracked tooth and needed to get it removed. While he was in surgery the vet noticed it was not normal. We found out he has bone loss and a mass on the side of his face.

Today we went to the U of M and had them see what the next steps we need to take. They did a biopsy and we get the results tomorrow. We know if our hearts that it is not going to be good news. So we decided that we are going to give him the best life he can have and do what he wants. Plus we want to make sure he sees as much of this world as he can. We don’t know the time frame but we are not going to worry about that and do what we can for him.

He is the sweetest boy you would meet. So please send him positive vibes his way.