Well this last week has been crazy, we had someone in our family pass away. It bring up important things as that we should talk about with our kids. It hard subject to talk about but we all need to. Make sure your kids know where all the important papers are and what you want if something happens to you. You never want them to have to make those decisions for you. They will be grieving and that all they should have to deal with.

I know that I am starting all the things I need to do, because I know after see what we had to go thru, I never want my kids to go thru that. I want to do what my mom did and she had everything pick out and paid for. I not sure if I an do that but I am going to do what I can.

Plus I want to make sure I know what my kids are going to get. I love them and i want to even write something to each of them. I know that i have some things i want to say to them but not until i am gone. That way it if me and they know how I felt about them.

So mlm please make sure you have the hard talk with your family and they know what your wishes are.

Be kind to all

I know that lately I have been talking about life. These are topics that everyone deals with all the time. I know that I always put on a happy face but sometime I have the stress and pressure on getting a lot done in a short time to make others happy. I know that it been hard and I push my self to get everything done. I know everything will work out the way they should and I will get things done. Just remember you need to take some time out for your self and relax and have fun. If you don’t you will not do you or anyone any good. I know that I have done that. I end up shutting down and feeling depressed which is not good either. I figure out ways I can have some fun and take care of me. Plus I have my boys to help me to. Because with out my boys I think that I would lose it more.

Remember to be kind and look out for yourself.