With the holidays coming up it is hard for some of us. We all have struggles, sometimes we need help. I know that I have a hard time because my mom passed away around Christmas and it has never been the same to me. I do things that I enjoy and it helps me remember my mom, but that’s not always enough.

Right now we have major issues that we are trying to deal with. Around the holidays money is tight. I do everything I can to give back to others even when money is tight. My daughter has a baking business and we sell as much as we can to make other families have Christmas.

Plus when others are dealing with missing family members around the holiday season. I know that I am one of those people. I lost my mom the day before her birthday and a few days before Christmas. It has never been the same for me. I know I have a friend that deals with the same things I do. I just want to skip the holidays all together.

Please everyone that reads this remember there are people going thru hard times and you might not even know it. Keep them in your thoughts. Plus last thing is to remember those animals that don’t have homes this holiday season too.

Happy holidays to all

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Today I was talking with a friend, we were talking about our kids and when they are young we run all over for them, But when they get older we don’t have to do that as much. Which I don’t think that it true, because they older they get the more they need us to lean on and help them out. So when do we get to stop helping them and just get to live our lives.

I know thatI love my kids and hope they always need me in their life but maybe a little less at time.

Just got to remember is that cherish each moment with them you never know when they wont need you anymore, plus live is short and each moment counts.

White ChristmasWhite Christmas

Well I not sure about others wonder if we are going to have a white Christmas or not. I know it been nice the last week and the snow I have in my yard is melting. My dogs love the snow and I don’t have a lot of it left in the yard for them to play in. I watch the weather and it don’t show that it going to snow anytime before Christmas get here. They say you need about 1 inch of snow to concern it to be a white Christmas, well I know we don’t have that at all.

The month of December has I have a lot of different occasions in it. It starts with my wedding Anniversary, I have my Mom passing away the day before her birthday and the week before Christmas, then we go on to my son birthday and new years. It a lot of happy and sad times which are hard to get thru. Some how I do it on my faith. 

Well if you ever need a friend or just some one to talk to, I get it and I am here. Be Kind and Happy Holidays to all

  

WaitingWaiting

I wanted to write this post this week for my boy Dubnyk. He is our 6 year foster failure. We love him so much and would do anything to help him. I would do it for any one of my dogs but he has had a hard life to start and has come a long way. A few months ago we went to the vet because he had a bump on the side of his face. We found out he had a cracked tooth and needed to get it removed. While he was in surgery the vet noticed it was not normal. We found out he has bone loss and a mass on the side of his face.

Today we went to the U of M and had them see what the next steps we need to take. They did a biopsy and we get the results tomorrow. We know if our hearts that it is not going to be good news. So we decided that we are going to give him the best life he can have and do what he wants. Plus we want to make sure he sees as much of this world as he can. We don’t know the time frame but we are not going to worry about that and do what we can for him.

He is the sweetest boy you would meet. So please send him positive vibes his way.