Kids
Today I was talking with a friend, we were talking about our kids and when they are young we run all over for them, But when they get older we don’t have to do that as much. Which I don’t think that it true, because they older they get the more they need us to lean on and help them out. So when do we get to stop helping them and just get to live our lives.
I know thatI love my kids and hope they always need me in their life but maybe a little less at time.
Just got to remember is that cherish each moment with them you never know when they wont need you anymore, plus live is short and each moment counts.
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Think before speakThink before speak
This week is about things people say to others that might hurt. I know that when it happens to me it stays with me for a while. It hurts for people that are supposed to love you and be there when you need them. When it happens I go through a cycle of why what I do even matters to anyone. When someone likes me with the issues I have it hard. Life doesn’t seem to matter to me anymore. I try and try but I think why no one cares if I am here or gone.
I know that I will get past it sometime but each time it takes a little longer. Many different ideas go through my head, but I do not act on any. I know that happens to others and are afraid to say something or even talk about it. This is why I want others to know you are never alone.
One day there are things that get to you, bother you, you will miss it. The one thing that seems to get to me the most is, that when it comes from someone that is supposed to love you. I know that everyone changes as they go through life but the love you have should never be something that hurts you the most.
Thank you again for letting me do this.
Who is Family?Who is Family?
Today I want to talk about family and friends. There are those you have that are family, but there are friends that you concert to be family. I know I have a few friends that I have more of my family than the ones that are family. I know the friends that I do have will be there for me faster than family members that I have. I want to help my family and the ones that I concert to be my family if I can. It is hard at times to spend time with everyone, but if I have learned anything with my health it is that I can count on a few.
There are people out there who don’t concern their pets as family but I know that I do. It is amazing what dogs know without saying anything at all. My dogs know when I need to have them close to me and the times that I need my space. That is why a lot of people have therapy animals. I know that there are times it is hard to get out of my house and not be judged. I do what I have to do to get thru my day. It is not always easy but I want to help.
If there was a way I could help without leaving my house I would do it. Everyone needs help in one way or another. I treasure my friends that are in my life. I know that I can’t see them as much as I would like to but I know they are there.
Thank you again for letting me do this, it is a great journey I am on and I can’t wait to see where else it takes me.
New PuppyNew Puppy
Today was a good day for dubnyk. he got to meet a new puppy that my sister in law got, she was 4 pounds, so for dubnyk is small, but he did well.
we adopted dubnyk from a resue that we foster for, we did an DNA test on him and got it back. We all were surprise to find the different breeds he was made up. I didn’t care because he is everything that I wanted.
Each day wiith my boys is a blessing, they keep me calm and happy. You see a saying that dogs are just a part of our lives but we are their whole life. I don’t believe that. They are just as much to me as I am to them, I love my dogs as much as my kids, sometime my kids would say more.
Just remember live is short and live, love and be happy.